Tuesday, November 13, 2007

The Tragic Story of Megan Meier (updated with video)

Jack M. over at Ace of Spades shines a big bright light on why you might want to think twice about letting your teenage daughter have a "MySpace" account:



Tina recalled telling Megan to sign off."I will Mom," Megan said. "Let me finish up."


Tina was pressed for time. She had to go. But once at the orthodontist's office she called Megan: Did you sign off?"No, Mom. They are all being so mean to me.""You are not listening to me, Megan! Sign off, now!"


Fifteen minutes later, Megan called her mother. By now Megan was in tears."They are posting bulletins about me."


A bulletin is like a survey. "Megan Meier is a slut. Megan Meier is fat."Megan was sobbing hysterically.


Tina was furious that she had not signed off. Once Tina returned home she rushed into the basement where the computer was. Tina was shocked at the vulgar language her daughter was firing back at people."I am so aggravated at you for doing this!" she told Megan.Megan ran from the computer and left, but not without first telling Tina, "You're supposed to be my mom! You're supposed to be on my side!"


On the stairway leading to her second-story bedroom, Megan ran into her father, Ron."I grabbed her as she tried to go by," Ron says. "She told me that some kids were saying horrible stuff about her and she didn't understand why. I told her it's OK. I told her that they obviously don't know her. And that it would be fine."


Megan went to her room and Ron went downstairs to the kitchen, where he and Tina talked about what had happened, the MySpace account, and made dinner.


Twenty minutes later, Tina suddenly froze in mid-sentence."I had this God-awful feeling and I ran up into her room and she had hung herself in the closet."


Megan Taylor Meier died the next day, three weeks before her 14th birthday.






There's a punch line to this story. A sick, twisted, perverted and evil one that had me in a rage when I read it. So read the entire story...

And tell me you won't have the same reaction. I'm with Jack on this one:

It is shameful that the man who wrote this article did not name the relevant parties.

And I'm pretty sure they've earned a spot in hell.

But what do I know? I'm just a moron who thinks a little more Old Fashioned, Old Testament-style vengeance might make the world a better place. Or, at the very least, this neighborhood.



(Update): Fox News has a video report here.

(Update: A reminder...NO Anonymous comments will be posted. Also, although I feel the writer of the article should have published the names of the "relevant parties", I will not post the comments from those who have discovered their names, address and phone numbers. Though the "relevant parties" probably deserve extreme justice, I am not going to be responsible for some crackpot taking matters into his/her own hands. Yes, I am PISSED at these horrible, horrible people...but I simply cannot be the outlet for this kind of information. Sorry.)

Go here for another update.

2 comments:

Another Lori Mom said...

The Meiers asked that we write the local officials.
Jack Banas, Prosecuting Attorney
Courts Administration Building
Room 601
300 North Second Street
St. Charles, MO 63301


Tom Neer,
St Charles County Sheriff Department
101 Sheriff Dierker Court
O' Fallon, MO 63366
Phone: (636) 949-1818
Fax: (636) 949-3078
E-Mail: sheriff@sccmo.org

Rep. Doug Funderburk
MO House of Representatives
201 West Capitol Avenue
Room 236B Jefferson City MO 65101

I just want to help them. You can, too.

Danny Vice said...

As details about Lori Drew's 6 week cyber-voyeur techniques emerge, I am more convinced that outing this kind of behavior is not only right, but essential. Essential? Really?

It is becoming clearer everyday that Lori Drew employed many of the same grooming techniques that child predators utilize to charm their way into gaining a child's trust. The most significant key here is that Lori Drew spent approximately 6 full weeks baiting Megan into this trust by posing as a "cute" boy that Megan would be attracted to.

Right here, Drew utilizes the sexual stimulation that exists in male/female pair bonding in order to manipulate the 13 year old girl.

Lori Drew groomed her victim like many child predators do, enticing her with flirtation, mild sexual conversation and playing on Megan's weakness. Lori knew that Megan had a low self esteem and was treated for depression.

There are uncanny parallels between the typical Child Predator MOA and those utilized by Lori Drew to control and manipulate Megan in the relationship Lori developed with her.

Outing Child Predators has been public policy in most states and is usually upheld under the premise that the public has a right to reasonably protect itself from criminal behavior where it exists. Families with children have a right to know when those who might prey upon their child, live nearby. Public policy dictates that if a child is exposed to potential harm from predatory activity, then parents should at least have the opportunity to be aware such harm may exist.

But what if a child predator confesses to a crime, but is never convicted? Does the potential for risk exist despite the legal process?

Thus far, details in the case have been heavily supported by Lori Drew's own admissions, police records and interviews. The amount of speculation in this case has been minimal, and the majority of public outrage has largely focused on the facts presented.

The Missouri Public Records Act of 1961 was enacted partially to inform the public of persons, events, proceedings and reports that may effect the public directly. The records (such as the charges Lori Drew filed against the Meier family), were the principal documents used to tie Lori Drew to her abhorrent acts. By filing this police report, Lori in effect put herself into the spot light. The Blogging community simply connected the dots and reported the results.

The Vice enjoys the sharp irony that Lori Drew's own actions, activities and zeal to hurt someone eventually lead to her own uncovering. As I see it, public policy laws and Lori Drew's own manipulations of those laws worked to her undoing. The Vice is appreciative for Lori Drew's assistance in these efforts.

Danny Vice
http://weeklyvice.blogspot.com