Tolerance only goes one way:
You know...THEIR way.
Can the Gays and Lesbians in California simply not accept that we have now voted against gay marriage THREE times now? THREE TIMES. Of course if democracy doesn't work, try a little intimidation. It begins here about 5 minutes in (MAJOR LANGUAGE WARNING...you didn't think that people who define themselves by their sexuality could possibly express themselves in any other way did you?):
"You violated my rights"
How? By voting? By supporting a closely-held societal and religious belief that has survived for thousands of years?
Of course the Governator has now changed his tack...with his encouragement, don't be surprised if the California Supreme Court gets involved once again.
Major H/T: KT